It is interesting how the way we see ourselves can be so out of synch with how others see us. This is especially true for those in leadership positions. You can be an outstanding individual, and people may like you as a person; however they may not see you as their leader.
I found the following blog post an interesting support of my point above. It helps bring to light a few things we may not think of when we believe we are busy leading.
http://leadershipfreak.wordpress.com/2011/08/25/how-honest-leaders-destroy-their-leadership/
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